The ultimate quest for most people during sex is achieving orgasm, and with good reason. This intoxicating sensation invades the entire body and helps reduce a lot of tension accumulated during the day. Allow us to demystify this pleasant feeling and give you some tips for achieving it along the way. Zoom on the orgasm!
It all starts from the head!
In both men and women, orgasm starts and comes first and foremost from the brain. It is in fact the first organ that must be stimulated in an orgasmic quest. It all happens in the limbic system, the part of the brain responsible for emotions. This is where the hormones linked to pleasure, endorphins, reside. For one to achieve orgasm, neurotransmitters in the brain must be stimulated and initiate the process.
Changes in our body
Reaching orgasm brings a multitude of physical sensations whose strength and intensity vary from one person to another. Generally, the skin reddens, breathing speeds up and the heart rate increases significantly. It's not for nothing that we often compare a sexual relationship to a sporting activity. We burn on average 70 calories while making love, which makes it a more intense activity than walking. When you can combine business with pleasure… why not take advantage of it?
Orgasm with a capital O
In women, there are different types of orgasms. If all women are able to achieve orgasm clitorally, or by stimulation of the clitoris, others achieve it differently. Vaginal orgasm is often more difficult to achieve and requires the woman to have a greater knowledge of her body and its sensations. We often associate G-spot and vaginal orgasm, since stimulation of this section often allows it to be achieved. To find out everything about Point G, we invite you to consult this article devoted entirely to this subject (https://sexxxplus.com/fr/le-point-g...-mythe-ou-realite).
There are other types of orgasms that we hear about less often, but are just as exciting! Among other things, orgasm can be achieved through anal penetration when the sensation of pleasure is identified by the brain. Although it sometimes requires more concentration and ease with your body, it is no less stimulating than the others.
Be aware, however, that orgasm is not achieved solely by stimulating the genitals and anus. Any erogenous zone that can create sufficiently intense arousal can lead to orgasm when stimulated. Think about the breasts in women, the neck or the area between the penis and the anus in men. Often, good stimulation from the partner, a moment of intense excitement and good concentration make this possible.
In men, it is almost always during ejaculation that orgasm occurs. In the majority of cases, the penis is excited either by penetration, masturbation or fellatio. However, it is allowed to use fantasy and directly stimulate the prostate in order to achieve a prostate orgasm, that is, an orgasm originating from the prostate and not from the penis. If the caresses to reach it are different, the sensation felt is just as different.
Is pleasure quick?
To this question, we will tell you, it depends. An orgasm lasts on average 10 to 30 seconds and tends to be a little longer and stronger in women. And don't think that orgasm diminishes with age, quite the contrary. As we get older, we know more and more about our body and therefore become able to better control and appreciate different sensations. We will therefore know which movements to perform and which areas to stimulate to bring us maximum pleasure, in time and intensity. It's a bit like anything, there's nothing better than practice to improve!
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Reaching orgasm shouldn't be stressful and distressing, quite the contrary. To help you get to know your body and the caresses that make you feel good, take the time to discover it and the different erogenous zones that make it up. To help you, we offer a range of objects that will allow you to stimulate these areas and get maximum pleasure from them.
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