Choosing erotic lingerie seems simple — but that's often where mistakes creep in: the wrong size, the wrong material, the wrong style for your figure. This guide covers the three criteria that really make a difference: size, a style suited to your body shape, and fabric choice. The result: you leave with an informed decision and complete confidence.
How to measure your size correctly for erotic lingerie
For the top: measure your bust at the fullest point, then your underbust directly beneath your breasts. The difference between the two determines your cup size. For the bottom: measure your waist at its narrowest point, then your hips at their widest point. Use a flexible measuring tape, and take your measurements without underwear for greater accuracy. If you're between two sizes, choose the larger one — it's always the right choice.
Why size is the number-one criterion in erotic lingerie
Lingerie that's too small compresses, digs into the skin and ruins the desired effect. A size that's too large loses its shape and seductive appeal. Many people wear underwear that doesn't quite match their measurements — with erotic lingerie, the difference is even more noticeable. The basic rule: a well-fitted size is the foundation of the entire effect you're trying to create.
Types of erotic lingerie: know what you're looking for before buying
Erotic lingerie isn't just one style — it's an entire world. A chemise is fluid, romantic and reaches to mid-thigh. A babydoll is shorter and more playful, and is often sold with matching panties. A bodysuit and a bustier focus on a sculpting effect. A bra-and-panty set remains a safe choice for beginners. And a garter belt? It's the ultimate glamorous piece, designed for occasions that deserve a little extra effort.
Choosing erotic lingerie according to your body shape
Every figure has its favorite pieces. X-shaped figure (defined waist)? You can wear anything — go for a bustier or a lace bodysuit. A-shaped figure (hips wider than the shoulders)? A balconette bra and a ruffled boyshort will create perfect balance. H-shaped figure (little waist definition)? A bustier or high-cut bodysuit will sculpt and define your figure. The most important thing, whatever your body shape: feeling good in what you wear.
Lace, satin or mesh: which fabric for your erotic lingerie?
Lace is the queen of erotic lingerie fabrics — slightly stretchy, feminine and adaptable to almost any style. Satin is shiny and fluid, ideal for chemises and robes that elegantly outline the figure. Mesh and fishnet maximize transparency — a guaranteed seductive effect, but less comfortable for extended wear. A practical tip: always choose a cotton gusset, whatever outer fabric you select.
Erotic lingerie and comfort: the two can coexist
People often think erotic lingerie is inherently uncomfortable. That's not true. There are pieces made from stretch elastane designed to be worn all day without discomfort. The key is to avoid pieces that are too rigid or poorly fitted for everyday use. A scratchy fabric or a waistband that's too tight will destroy exactly the effect you're looking for. Self-confidence is the real driver of seduction — and it starts with feeling good in what you wear.
Plus-size erotic lingerie: every body shape has its favorite pieces
The market has changed. Most major erotic lingerie collections now offer extended sizes, and that's a good thing. For fuller busts, choose bras with reinforced underwire and wide, adjustable straps. A bustier is particularly flattering in plus sizes: it slims the waist and highlights curves. Lace, satin and mesh are all available in plus sizes. The options are there — you just need to know where to look.
Choosing erotic lingerie according to the occasion: Valentine's Day, a romantic evening or every day
The occasion changes everything. For Valentine's Day, choose a bold color (red, black) and a statement piece such as a lace set or a bustier. For a romantic evening, a chemise or robe creates a gradual, elegant seduction. For everyday wear, a lightweight stretch lace set or a comfortable bodysuit lets you maintain that feeling effortlessly. Giving it as a gift? Choose a generous size and a versatile material such as black lace.
SexxxPlus: find your erotic lingerie in Québec, in store or online
Since 1996, SexxxPlus has helped people across Québec choose erotic lingerie and intimate wellness products. With 13 stores throughout the province, you can see the materials up close, ask questions and get judgment-free advice from a trained, welcoming team. Prefer to shop from home? The online store offers an expanded selection with discreet delivery. SexxxPlus is for everyone.
The most common mistakes when buying erotic lingerie
The most common one: buying a size that's too small because it looked good on the hanger. It compresses and isn't flattering. Another classic mistake is overlooking the material. A fabric that doesn't breathe well can cause discomfort or irritation. Care is also often forgotten — most erotic lingerie isn't dryer-safe. And relying only on model photos, without considering your own figure, often leads to avoidable disappointment.
How to care for lace erotic lingerie: make your pieces last
Lace requires gentle, delicate care. Hand washing remains the best option: soak the piece in lukewarm water with a detergent made for delicate lingerie, then rinse without wringing. If you use a washing machine, place the lingerie in a closed mesh bag and select the delicate cycle at a maximum of 30 °C. Above all, never use a dryer: heat damages elastane and breaks lace threads. Lay flat to dry on a towel, and store without compressing.
Choosing erotic lingerie well: the key takeaways
Choosing erotic lingerie well rests on three simple pillars: the right size, a style suited to your body shape, and a material that matches the intended use. Beyond the technical details, the most effective lingerie is the lingerie you truly feel good in. Whether it's for a special occasion or everyday wear, there's a piece for every desire. Explore the SexxxPlus selection in store or online, and find the one that reflects you.
Frequently asked questions
Where can I buy erotic lingerie in Québec?
SexxxPlus is the Québec reference, with 13 physical stores throughout the province: Montréal (LaSalle), Longueuil, Drummondville, Trois-Rivières, Victoriaville, Granby, Joliette, Saint-Hyacinthe and several other cities. You can also shop at sexxxplus.com for discreet delivery directly to your home. Store teams are trained to guide you without judgment — whether you're looking for a piece for yourself or a gift. Since 1996, SexxxPlus is for everyone.
How do you care for lace lingerie?
Hand washing is best for preserving the structure and softness of lace. Use lukewarm water and a gentle detergent made for delicate lingerie. If you prefer to use a machine, place the piece in a closed mesh laundry bag and select the delicate cycle at a maximum of 30 °C. The dryer must be avoided at all costs: heat shrinks elastane and damages delicate threads. Lay flat to dry on a clean towel, away from direct sunlight.
Is plus-size erotic lingerie available?
Yes, modern erotic lingerie collections include extended sizes for a wide range of body shapes. For fuller figures, choose pieces with wide, adjustable straps, sturdy elastic bands and reinforced underwire for fuller busts. Bustiers and chemises are particularly flattering in plus sizes. At SexxxPlus, store teams can direct you to pieces available in your size — don't hesitate to ask.
What is the difference between a chemise and a babydoll?
A chemise is generally longer, ending at mid-thigh or the knees. It's often made of satin or fluid lace, with a romantic and elegant effect. A babydoll is shorter, ending at the waist or hips, and is generally sold with matching panties for a more playful, flirtatious style. Both are available in lace, satin or mesh. If you're new to erotic lingerie, a babydoll is often more accessible and easy to incorporate into everyday wear.
How do you choose erotic lingerie according to your body shape if you don't know your measurements?
Start by identifying your overall body shape by looking at the proportions of your shoulders, hips and waist. Without a measuring tape, use your usual clothing sizes as a starting point. For bras, rely on your usual size and adjust according to the brand. If you're between two sizes, choose the larger one — a little extra room is better than a piece that's too tight. SexxxPlus advisers in store can also help you identify the best option.
Can you wear erotic lingerie every day?
Absolutely. There are erotic lingerie pieces designed for everyday wear: stretch lace sets, microfiber bodysuits and lightweight thongs. These pieces combine seduction and comfort without compromise. Erotic lingerie isn't reserved for special occasions — it can boost confidence every day, even when hidden beneath your clothes. The key is to choose a breathable material and a suitable size. Save very open or highly structured pieces for moments that deserve them.
