Are you considering buying your first masturbator but don’t know where to start? That’s normal. The men’s sex toy market has exploded in recent years, and the range can seem overwhelming when you’re not yet familiar with the types, materials, or features available.

This guide is designed for you, a beginner. Each section answers a practical question: which type to choose, which material to prioritize, what budget to plan for, and how to care for your toy so it lasts a long time. You’ll have all the keys you need to make an informed first purchase, without regrets and suited to what you’re really looking for.

Masturbation with a sex toy: normal, common, and good for your health

Male masturbation is widespread. It is part of men’s sexual health and is recognized for its real benefits to overall well-being. Using a masturbator doesn’t change much in substance, but changes everything in form: sensations are amplified, the experience is enhanced, and knowledge of your body naturally grows.

Recognized benefits include better stress management, a positive impact on sleep quality, and the release of endorphins associated with pleasure and relaxation. The psychological dimension matters too: learning what gives you pleasure improves your intimate life, both alone and with a partner.

The taboo surrounding men’s sex toys is quickly fading. The masturbator for men is now less stigmatized and increasingly popular. It’s not a substitute: it’s an extension of pleasure, whether you’re alone or in a relationship.

The different types of masturbators for men

There’s no single universal type of masturbator. The right choice depends on how you plan to use it, how comfortable you are with the sex toy, and the budget you’re willing to invest. Here are the main categories to know about so you can make an informed first purchase.

Manual masturbators (masturbation sleeves)

The manual masturbator works on a simple principle: you control the stroking motion yourself. No buttons, no batteries: the rhythm and intensity depend entirely on you.

This is the ideal format for a first purchase. The entry-level price is affordable, it’s intuitive to use, and maintenance is simple. Formats vary: tube, expandable sleeve, or even the Tenga Egg - a compact, discreet option that’s perfect for discovering the sensations of a masturbation sleeve.

Automatic masturbators

The automatic masturbator has a motor that handles the movements for you: rotation, stroking, suction, or a combination of all three. The result: a hands-free experience that’s more intense and requires less effort.

This is an excellent choice if you want to take things further from the outset. But be careful: some models offer dozens of modes, which can be confusing. For a first purchase, aim for a model with only one or two modes. You can always upgrade later.

Realistic masturbators

These models reproduce the appearance of a body part: vagina, mouth, or anus. The design is crafted to offer a sensory experience close to the real thing.

The materials used include TPE, CyberSkin, and silicone. Note that these products are often heavier, bulkier, and require more thorough maintenance than simple sleeves. For a beginner who wants the most realistic experience possible, this is a solid option, provided you plan the cleaning properly.

Suction and pressure-wave masturbators

These devices use air-pressure technology to stimulate the glans without penetration. The sensation is radically different from that of a classic sleeve.

Brands such as Satisfyer and Womanizer Men have popularized this format. If you are curious about new sensations and your budget allows, it is an interesting option. However, if you simply want to try one before investing, start with a manual masturbator instead.

Which type is right for which beginner profile?

Materials: what you need to know before buying

The material of a masturbator determines three things: how it feels to the touch, how safe it is for your body, and how easy it is to maintain. Before buying, learn to tell them apart.

TPE (thermoplastic elastomer): soft, realistic to the touch, and very common. This is the most common material used in entry-level and mid-range masturbators. Its only drawback: TPE is porous. Bacteria can lodge in it if cleaning is not thorough.

Medical silicone: non-porous, durable, hypoallergenic. This is the benchmark material for health and durability. Important: never use silicone-based lubricant with a medical silicone sleeve, as it degrades the material.

CyberSkin: ultra-realistic texture, but fragile. This material requires special care: it must be dusted with renewal powder after each drying to prevent it from becoming sticky.

ABS / hard plastic: used for casings and electronic mechanisms. It doesn't come into direct contact with the skin and is completely harmless.

Materials to avoid: uncertified PVC and any products without a composition statement. These materials may contain phthalates, chemicals that could potentially be harmful to health.

Golden rule before every purchase: check for the words “body-safe” or “phthalate-free” on the product page. If the information isn't available, move on.

Manual or automatic: how to choose for a first purchase

This is the question most beginners ask. The answer depends on two factors: your budget and the level of complexity you want to start with.

A manual masturbator suits all beginner profiles. It's cheaper, immediately intuitive to use, and its maintenance requires no technical knowledge. It's the most logical option if you want to test the sensations before investing more.

An automatic masturbator offers a more intense experience from the start, but it requires a little more learning and a higher budget. If you choose this category, select an entry-level model with one or two modes. There's no need to start with a device with ten different functions.

Quick comparison:

Beginner recommendation: start with an entry-level manual or automatic model. You'll have plenty of time to move up the range once you've identified the sensations you prefer.

Budget for a first masturbator: how much should you plan to spend?

You don't need to spend a fortune for a satisfying first purchase. The market offers good options at every budget level.

Entry-level (under CA$30): masturbation eggs, simple sleeves. Perfect for testing sensations without commitment. You can find out whether a masturbator meets your expectations before investing more.

Mid-range (CA$30 – 80): better-quality materials, multiple textures, increased reliability. This is the ideal range for a balanced first purchase, especially if you already know that this format interests you.

Premium (CA$80 and more): automatic, connected, multifunction masturbators. A category to consider after a satisfying first experience, when you know exactly what you want.

Key advice: there’s no need to start with a high-end model. The best masturbator for a beginner is the one that matches their comfort level and what they’re ready to try that day.

Lubricant and accessories: what you need with your first purchase

Buying a masturbator without lubricant is like buying a car without gas. This is a common mistake among beginners, and it can make the experience uncomfortable or even painful. Lubricant is not optional: it’s an essential purchase with your masturbator.

Water-based lubricant: this is the universal recommendation for beginners. Compatible with all materials (TPE, silicone, ABS), it does not damage the sleeve and rinses off easily. It’s the only type to consider if you’re not sure what material your toy is made of.

Silicone-based lubricant: more durable, but incompatible with medical-grade silicone sleeves. If your masturbator is made of silicone, this type of lubricant will degrade the material. Avoid it if in doubt.

Warming or cooling lubricant: an enjoyable option to explore with a second purchase, once you know what you like.

Sex toy cleaner: essential. It cleans effectively without damaging the material, prevents irritation, and significantly extends the life of your masturbator. Plan to get one with your first purchase.

How SexxxPlus supports beginners with their first purchase

SexxxPlus is a Quebec-based adult store with physical locations in Quebec and discreet online delivery service throughout Canada. If you want to shop locally and safely, you’re in the right place.

SexxxPlus’s selection of masturbators for men ranges from entry-level to premium. All products are body-safe: there are no compromises when it comes to material safety. Whether you’re looking for a simple sleeve or an automatic masturbator, you’ll find an option suited to your experience level.

You don’t need to be an expert to shop at SexxxPlus. The store is designed for curious newcomers as well as regular customers. In-store, advice is offered without judgment, even for a first purchase. Online, each product description helps you choose according to your needs.

Discreet delivery means neutral packaging with no mention of the contents on the package. Your purchase stays between you and you.

Care and hygiene: keeping your masturbator in good condition

A well-maintained masturbator lasts for several years. If neglected, it can deteriorate quickly and become a source of irritation. Hygiene routines are simple and quick to incorporate into your routine.

Before first use: cleaning is essential, even if the product is new. Manufacturing residues can cause irritation.

After each use: rinse with lukewarm water immediately. Use a dedicated sex toy cleaner or, if unavailable, a mild, fragrance-free soap. Allow it to air-dry completely before storing.

Storage: a clean, dry place, ideally in the pouch or case provided with the product. Avoid surfaces where dust and bacteria accumulate.

If your masturbator is made from a porous material such as TPE or CyberSkin, more thorough care is required. These materials retain moisture and bacteria more easily. Incomplete drying very often leads to rapid deterioration of the material.

With proper care, a quality masturbator will last for several years. It is an investment that quickly pays for itself.

Solo or partnered use: two different approaches

A masturbator is not limited to solo pleasure. Depending on the model you choose and the dynamics of your relationship, it can also be incorporated into use as a couple.

Solo: You have complete control. It is a space for personal exploration, without pressure, to discover what gives you pleasure. A first purchase is often a solo decision, and masturbators are perfectly suited to solo use.

As a couple: Some formats are well suited to this. Vibrating rings, for example, stimulate both partners at the same time. Some masturbators are designed for fully shared use during penetration. In all cases, talking with your partner is the best place to start.

If you are considering using it as a couple from your first purchase, communication is key. Taking the pressure off, suggesting that you explore together, and making sure both partners feel comfortable: that is what makes the difference between a positive experience and discomfort.

Key advice: decide when you buy it whether it will be used solo, as a couple, or both. The right model depends on how you plan to use it.

Frequently asked questions about your first masturbator

Is using a masturbator safe?

Yes, provided that the product is made from certified body-safe materials: phthalate-free, CE-tested, or compliant with current safety standards. Follow the use and care instructions supplied with the product. Irritation may occur if the materials are poor quality or if you do not use lubricant. Buying from a specialist shop that carefully selects its products eliminates this risk.

Which masturbator should you choose for your first purchase?

Keep it simple. Choose a manual masturbator or an automatic one with one or two modes maximum. Choose a body-safe material (TPE or medical-grade silicone) and plan on a budget of CA$20 to CA$50 to evaluate the sensations before investing more. You will have plenty of time to move up to a higher-end model once you know exactly what you like.

Do you have to use lubricant with a masturbator?

Yes. Lubricant is strongly recommended for comfort, sleeve protection, and the quality of the sensations. Without lubricant, the risk of irritation is real. Choose a water-based lubricant for universal compatibility with all materials. Absolutely avoid silicone-based lubricants if your sleeve is made of medical-grade silicone.

How do you clean and care for a masturbator?

Rinse with lukewarm water immediately after use. Use a dedicated sex toy cleaner or a mild, fragrance-free soap. Let it air-dry completely before storing it in a clean, dry place. Incomplete drying is the leading cause of premature deterioration.

What is the difference between a manual and an automatic masturbator?

With a manual masturbator, you control the movement. It is more affordable and ideal for beginners. An automatic masturbator uses a built-in motor for a hands-free experience that is more intense, but at a higher price. For a beginner, the manual model is generally the best place to start.

Conclusion

Choosing your first masturbator is above all about knowing your options before buying. You now know what types exist, which materials to prioritize, what budget to plan for, and how to care for your toy so it lasts.

The most important rule remains the same for everyone: start simple. A manual or entry-level automatic masturbator, a water-based lubricant, and a sex toy cleaner. That is all you need for a successful first purchase.

The rest comes with experience. Once you know what you like, you can explore other formats, other textures, and other levels of intensity. There is no wrong place to start, only a first step to take.

At SexxxPlus, the selection is designed for everyone, from the curious to the connoisseurs. In store or online with discreet delivery throughout Quebec and Canada, your first purchase happens at your own pace, without pressure, and with complete confidence.