(By her) I’ve been in a relationship for nearly a year. We have a fulfilling sex life, and we communicate all our desires, preferences, needs, and fantasies. There are no taboos between us, and that’s a good thing! During our last dinner at a restaurant, he told me that he would like us to experiment more with anal sex. This surprised me a little, since he already regularly penetrated me with his tongue, fingers, and even his penis. As we continued the conversation, I understood that he would like me to penetrate him, not with my fingers, but with a toy. Personally, I had never tried this before. I even had some preconceptions about it: did a man who wanted this have homosexual tendencies? So I read a lot about the subject, and a sexologist friend reassured me by saying that there was absolutely nothing abnormal about anal pleasure and that it was in no way connected to sexual orientation. Many men, gay or straight, enjoy anal stimulation. This area of the body contains many nerve endings, which heightens pleasure. Any form of anal penetration in men can stimulate the prostate (the famous P-spot!!!), which heightens arousal. In short, this conversation sparked my curiosity and made me want to try the experience. I told my boyfriend that, ultimately, I would like to share this moment with him. So we set out to find the perfect toy. Since it was his first time too, we wanted something fairly standard and rather discreet (not to say small). We settled on the Beginner’s Strap-On For Him. That evening, we had a drinks-filled dinner at home. We started with fairly classic foreplay, as usual. Then my boyfriend blindfolded me and put the harness on me while continuing the foreplay. It was very exciting, even though we were both a little nervous. He got into position, and I began making gentle pelvic movements. I immediately felt his arousal, which heightened mine. There’s no denying it: men feel a great deal of pleasure in this area! We both loved our experience. For the first time in my life, I felt “dominant,” and I didn’t dislike it. I put myself in my lover’s shoes when he penetrates me; it was both a pleasurable and enriching experience. For a better experience, use any type of lubricant. Our next step: the Double Delight Strap On for maximum pleasure for him, and for me too! And you, would you be tempted to switch roles?