(By her) I've been in a relationship for almost a year. We have a fulfilling sex life and we communicate all our desires, desires, preferences, needs and fantasies. There are no taboos between us and that's a good thing! During our last meeting at the restaurant, he told me that he would like us to experiment more with sodomy. Which surprised me a little, since he already penetrated me regularly with his tongue, with his fingers and even with his penis. As the conversation deepened, I realized that he would like me to penetrate him, not with my fingers, but with a toy. Personally, I have never tried this experiment. I even had some prejudices about it: a man who wanted that must have homosexual tendencies? So I read a lot about it and a sexologist friend reassured me by telling me that there was absolutely nothing abnormal about anal pleasure and that it was in no way associated with sexual orientation. Many men, gay or straight, enjoy anal stimulation. This region of the body contains a lot of nerve endings, which enhances pleasure. Any form of anal penetration in men can stimulate the prostate (the famous P-spot!!!), which increases his arousal. In short, this discussion aroused in me a curiosity and the desire to try the experience. I told my boyfriend that, ultimately, I would like to share this moment with him. So we set out to find the perfect toy. As it was his first time too, we wanted something fairly standard and rather discreet (not to mention small). Our choice fell on the Beginner's Strap-On For Him. In the evening, we made ourselves a delicious dinner at home. We started with fairly standard foreplay, as usual. Then my boyfriend blindfolded me and put the harness on, while continuing the foreplay. It was very exciting, although we were both a little nervous. He settled in and I started doing light pelvic movements. I immediately felt his excitement, which made mine rise. It's undeniable, men feel a lot of pleasure in this region! We both loved our experience. For the first time in my life, I felt “dominant” and I didn’t hate it. I put myself in my lover's shoes when he penetrates me, it's an experience that is both pleasant and enriching. For a better experience, use any type of lubricants. Our next step: the Double Delight Strap On for maximum pleasure for him, and for me too! And you, would you be tempted to exchange your roles?