(By him) My girlfriend and I have been neglecting each other lately! We didn't allow ourselves enough quality time together, and so our sex life also suffered the consequences. After a discussion, we decided to launch a 30-day challenge! No, not a diet, not a sporting challenge (although...), a 30 days where we had to allow ourselves a minimum of 30 minutes to find intimacy and have sex. At first, I admit that I didn't believe it, but I got a taste for it quite quickly! Here is my assessment. Creativity I surprised myself by being creative, by wanting to surprise my girlfriend, by inventing little touches. It occupied my thoughts and I wanted to surpass myself. I realized that I often waited for my girlfriend to take the first steps, to show me her desire... but now, I'm the one in control! ;) Simplicity There were evenings (and mornings) when we only practiced oral love, to the point of orgasm. A great alternative! Sexuality goes well beyond penetration and we have realized this. Besides, she took a liking to waking me up with oral sex. And of course, I'm not going to complain about it! New We tried lots of new things that we had never thought of. We left our comfort zone by trying sodomy for the first time for her. (link to the other article). Complicity Our friends keep telling us that we are glowing these days. It must be said that during our last dinner with friends, we tested the Miu Miu (product link). Charlotte was resplendent, yes! But the reason was our little secret! Communication In one month, we got to know our body more than in 5 years of relationship... It's so sad, all this wasted time! With this challenge, we communicated more than usual. We paid particular attention to telling each other precisely what we liked. We even spent time watching each other masturbate. In short, it helped us better express our desires and fantasies. Desire and sensuality My girlfriend kept sending me sexts (and even erotic photos!!!), telling me what she liked about our last evening, what she would like to try... I even noticed that She was more flirtatious, she always wore sexy underwear. I find her more beautiful than ever! Confidence It’s also good for your self-esteem! I really have the feeling that my girlfriend really wants me (and that she could unzip my jeans at any time!). I feel beautiful and confident, even though that might sound cliché. The fact of having put our sex life as a priority in our daily routine has only had positive effects, both for her and for me. And even though the 30-day challenge is over, we promised ourselves to book naughty moments, even when our schedules are busy. I challenge you… the 30 day challenge!