(By him) My girlfriend and I have been neglecting each other lately! We weren't making enough quality time for each other, and as a result, our sex life suffered too. After a discussion, we decided to take on a 30-day challenge! No, not a diet, and not a fitness challenge (although...), but 30 days during which we had to set aside at least 30 minutes to reconnect intimately and have sex. At first, I admit I didn't believe in it, but I got into it pretty quickly! Here's my recap. Creativity I surprised myself by being creative, wanting to surprise my girlfriend and coming up with little thoughtful gestures. It occupied my thoughts, and I wanted to outdo myself. I realized that I often waited for my girlfriend to make the first move and show me her desire... but now, I'm the one in control! ;) Simplicity There were evenings (and mornings) when we only practiced oral sex until orgasm. An excellent alternative! Sexuality goes far beyond penetration, and we really realized that. In fact, she started enjoying waking me up with a blowjob. And of course, I'm certainly not going to complain! Novelty We tried lots of new things that we had never thought of before. We stepped outside our comfort zone by trying anal sex for the first time, for her. (link to the other article). Connection Our friends can't stop telling us how radiant we look these days. It should be said that during our last dinner with friends, we tried the Miu Miu (product link). Charlotte looked stunning, yes! But the reason why was our little secret! Communication In one month, we learned more about each other's bodies than we had in 5 years of being together... It's so sad, all that wasted time! With this challenge, we communicated more than usual. We made a point of telling each other precisely what we liked. We even spent time watching each other masturbate. In short, it helped us better express our desires and fantasies. Desire and sensuality My girlfriend kept sending me sexts (and even erotic photos!!!), telling me what she had enjoyed about our last evening, what she would like to try... I even noticed that she was more coquettish, always wearing sexy lingerie. I think she's more beautiful than ever! Confidence It also does wonders for your self-esteem! I really feel that my girlfriend desires me intensely (and that she could unzip my jeans at any moment!). I feel attractive and confident, even if that sounds cliché. Making our sex life a priority in our daily routine has had nothing but positive effects, for both of us. And even though the 30-day challenge is over, we promised each other that we would schedule some steamy moments, even when our schedules are busy. I challenge you... to take on the 30-day challenge!