Erotic massage is undoubtedly one of the longest forms of foreplay one can enjoy. Aiming to promote the couple’s sexual fulfillment, it also provides all the benefits of a normal relaxing massage, such as reducing stress, calming the mind, and improving blood circulation. Unlike traditional massage, erotic massage will most often lead to sexual intercourse.
With the pace of life we know today, incorporating erotic massage into our romantic rituals provides both partners with a shared sense of well-being. The importance of touching each other and exchanging caresses will certainly increase desire.
Where to start? To begin, why not make sure the atmosphere is perfect? Dim lighting, lit candles, and soft music will help set the mood. With a bottle of massage oil in hand, you are ready to begin... obviously, once all your clothes are off!
The art of erotic massage lies in finding the right balance between relaxation and arousal. The caresses should be gentle enough to allow our partner to relax, without being so delicate that they fall asleep. We want to arouse them, as much as possible, of course, without moving straight to intercourse. The ultimate goal... making it all the way to the end!
Once our partner is lying on the bed, we start by massaging the neck and back, lingering on the buttocks. We massage the breasts and the various erogenous zones, because the goal, besides helping the other person relax, is to stimulate desire. We move our hands all around our partner’s genitals and let ourselves be desired. We gradually encourage more and more closeness and feel the excitement building on both sides.
Take the time to gently caress your partner’s favorite areas. Massage the testicles and the area between them and the anus for a man. For a woman, caress her breasts, outer labia, and the entrance to the vagina. Spice things up by adding sex toys for stimulation or feathers to send shivers down the spine. Let your imagination run free, and observe their reactions. The more your partner seems to enjoy it, the more you can intensify your caresses... without exceeding their tolerance threshold.
And once the excitement becomes too intense, move on to intercourse without further delay and enjoy the height of arousal after this relaxing moment filled with desire and intimacy.
Plan this moment as a couple. Friday evening after a long week, or Sunday morning while lounging in bed. Guaranteed pleasure!
