Following up on recent articles on sex and pregnancy as well as the return of sex after pregnancy, Sexxx Plus now offers you tips and tricks for finding the time, and sometimes the place, to make love when you are parents. Because it’s not because we become parents that sexuality is put aside!
So, for all the parents reading this article, know that it is possible to have a fulfilling sex life and make love on a regular basis, even when we have children. Sometimes you just need to be a little more imaginative and well organized. Here are our best tips for making love when you have children!
Tip #1: Make love when the kids are asleep
No matter how old your children are, making love while they're asleep is certainly one of the best ways to have sex on a frequent basis. And tell yourself that all means are good, as long as your adorable heirs are asleep.
Do you have young children who still nap in the afternoon? Don't look for noon to two p.m. and jump at the chance...and your partner. Once baby is in bed, you will have on average between 1 and 3 hours to let go and enjoy each other.
If, however, the days of naptime are over, know that you still have a good number of options. If you're more of a morning person, there's nothing stopping you from setting your alarm a little earlier so you have time to make love before the whole household is awake. If, on the other hand, you prefer to do it once the day is over, take a little time to yourself when you go to bed. A simple check to make sure your kids are asleep, and you'll be ready to drift off. And to further spice up your sex life, we also advise you to make love in the middle of the night. What could be more pleasant for your partner than being woken up by cunnilingus or fellatio?
Tip #2: When your children are not at home
This is certainly the moment that seems the most logical and obvious to us. If you want to avoid getting caught, it's always easier to have sex when the kids aren't at home. Whether they're at the grandparents' house for the evening, out with friends to the movies, or at a birthday party, just make sure you know what time they're supposed to be back so you have ample time.
Tip #3: Coming back from a romantic evening
Last but not least is making love when you're back from a date night. Is the babysitter at home and you enjoyed a nice meal at the restaurant? Have you taken the time to win yourself back like the first day by gently sipping a good bottle of wine? Before returning home, in your little routine, why not end the evening in style? Make love in the car on the way home or in your backyard under the moonlight. A unique moment in an unusual place that will undoubtedly take the excitement up a notch!
Remember that it is possible to have an active and fulfilling sex life when you become parents. Sometimes you just need to be more imaginative, but this imagination will undoubtedly give way to great surprises and many very exciting moments!
