Following the recent articles about sex and pregnancy, as well as getting back to sex after pregnancy, Sexxx Plus is now offering tips and tricks for finding the time, and sometimes the place, to have sex when you’re parents. Because becoming parents doesn’t mean putting your sex life on hold!
So, to all the parents reading this article, know that it is possible to have a fulfilling sex life and have sex regularly, even when you have children. Sometimes, all it takes is being a little more imaginative and well organized. Here are our best tips for having sex when you have children!
Tip #1: Have sex while the children are sleeping
No matter how old your children are, having sex while they’re sleeping is certainly one of the best ways to have sex frequently. And remember that all means are fair, as long as your adorable heirs are asleep.
Do you have young children who still nap in the afternoon? Don’t overcomplicate things and seize the opportunity...and your partner. Once the baby is in bed, you’ll have an average of 1 to 3 hours to let yourselves go and enjoy each other.
If naptime is a thing of the past, however, know that you still have plenty of options. If you’re more of a morning person, there’s nothing stopping you from setting your alarm a little earlier so you have time to have sex before the whole household wakes up. If, on the other hand, you prefer to do it once the day is over, set aside a little time just for the two of you when you go to bed. A simple check to make sure your children are sound asleep, and you’ll be ready to let yourselves go. And to spice up your sex life even more, we also recommend having sex in the middle of the night. What could be more pleasurable for your partner than being woken up by cunnilingus or a blowjob?
Tip #2: When your children aren’t home
This is certainly the moment that seems the most logical and obvious to us. If you want to avoid getting caught, it’s always easier to have sex when the children aren’t home. Whether they’re at their grandparents’ for the evening, out at the movies with friends, or at a birthday party, just make sure you know when they’re expected to return so that you have enough time.
Tip #3: When you get back from a romantic evening
The last tip, but certainly not the least important, is to have sex when you get back from a romantic evening. The babysitter is at home, and you’ve enjoyed a lovely meal at a restaurant? Have you taken the time to rekindle your relationship as if it were the first day, while slowly sipping a good bottle of wine? Before returning home to your little routine, why not end the evening on a high note? Have sex in the car on the way home or even in your backyard under the moonlight. A unique moment in an extraordinary place that will undoubtedly raise the excitement level!
Remember that it is possible to have an active and fulfilling sex life when you become parents. Sometimes all you need is to be more imaginative, but that imagination will undoubtedly make way for wonderful surprises and many very exciting moments!
