Masturbation, the act by which a person gives themselves pleasure by stimulating their own genitals, is a very common and completely normal sexual practice. For most people, whether under the covers or in the shower, this practice is done solo and does not involve their partner. However, masturbation offers several benefits for couples who choose to practice this activity together. The SexxxPlus team has therefore decided to present a short guide to “masturbation for two” so you can discover all the benefits of watching your partner give themselves pleasure. Let’s take a closer look at masturbation as a duo!

Masturbation is good for you
Masturbation is packed with benefits and positive effects on the body. Not only does it help reduce stress and promote restful sleep thanks to orgasm, but it also gives the person practicing it the opportunity to improve their self-awareness. In fact, by experimenting with different types of caresses and discovering new areas of arousal, we become better able to understand our bodies and what turns us on. Knowing your body better also allows you to better control your pleasure and guide your partner during sex: satisfaction guaranteed! In other words, solo masturbation will subsequently enhance your pleasure together!

Let’s masturbate together
But then, why limit ourselves to solo masturbation? If it offers so many benefits for the body and mind, masturbation should also be incorporated into sexual relationships and practiced in the presence of your partner.

When masturbating as a duo, the act is no longer performed solely for personal pleasure, but is also shared with your partner. How? Because simply watching your partner become aroused and give themselves pleasure before your eyes will be enough to arouse you as well. Everyone has a little voyeuristic side, and masturbating as a duo allows you to explore it to its full potential.

Imagine yourself lying on your bed, with your partner beside you. They caress themselves all over their body, and you watch their pleasure gently build inside them. You can take the time to observe them: watch how they caress themselves and which areas give them the most sexual satisfaction, then start touching and masturbating yourself. Look into each other’s eyes, still without touching one another. Tell your partner what you would like to see them do: caress their breasts, massage their testicles, in short, whatever turns you on and arouses you - anything goes. Now add some excitement by incorporating a sex toy into the experience, such as the Chorus™ by We-Vibe®. Start by using it solo, selecting the different functions with its remote control, then use it during a full sexual encounter to maximize your pleasure together.

The next time you are lying beside your partner, take a few moments to caress yourself and observe their reaction. You will quickly see their arousal build, just like yours! Let yourself go and enjoy the simultaneous pleasures of masturbating as a duo. Pleasure (and orgasm) guaranteed!