Oral sex is an integral part of our sex lives. For most women, penetration alone is not enough. And women love cunnilingus just as much as men love blowjobs. Cunnilingus is women’s favorite form of foreplay. (Highlighted sentence) This sexual practice involves stimulating your partner’s clitoris, labia, and vulva with your tongue and mouth. Clitoral orgasms are much more common than vaginal orgasms. So cunnilingus should not be neglected, gentlemen - you should put just as much passion into it as you do penetration! But be careful! Performing cunnilingus is an art that requires some practice… 1/ Ask questions and listen to your partner Each woman has unique and different sexual desires. Ask questions: More or less pressure? With or without fingers? And above all… listen! To her requests, of course, but also to her movements and the subtle signs she gives you. When your partner tells you “continue,” that does not mean going faster or starting other actions… but rather simply continuing exactly what you are doing. 2/ Relax your partner Cunnilingus can be a source of stress for many women. (Am I shaved well enough? Does he like what he sees, what he does, what he smells? etc.) Make your partner understand that you love going down on her, that she is beautiful, and that she can let go. Why not make some soft moaning sounds? In addition, the vibrations create a very pleasant sensation. 3/ Caress her everywhere Do not focus solely on this area… continue caressing her thighs, buttocks, and breasts, and hold her waist. Help her feel confident so that she feels comfortable and can let go. 4/ Change positions Be innovative and creative to find positions that are more comfortable for you, but especially for your partner. Ask her to sit astride your face. That way, she can also control the experience. Ask her to lie on her back and place her legs over your shoulders while you kneel at the edge of the bed. In short, break out of the usual routine… and out from under the covers! 5/ Find the right rhythm Do not stick to just one type of caress or licking motion. Apply firm pressure, then less pressure; move your tongue up and down (thank you, figure 8!), sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly. You can also use your tongue for shallow penetration. Did you know? One side of the vulva is more sensitive than the other… find it! 6/ Use an accessory as an ally or Use an accessory at the same time Whether it is an external pleasure device (link) or an internal one (link), accept having an ally in your practice. More stimulation increases your partner’s chances of having an orgasm. Did you succeed? Congratulations! However, be aware that the clitoris becomes very sensitive and sometimes even a little painful after orgasm. On the other hand, is it not working? Ask her to masturbate and… take notes! There is no better way to learn more about your partner’s sexual preferences. Enjoy!