Oral sex is an integral part of our sex life. It's obvious that for most women, penetration is not enough. And women love cunninlingus, just as men love blowjobs. Cunnilingus is women's favorite foreplay. (Sentence highlighted) This sexual practice consists of stimulating the clitoris, lips, and vulva of one's partner with the tongue and mouth. Clitoral orgasm is much more common than vaginal. Cunnilingus is therefore not insignificant, gentlemen, you must put as much passion into it as during penetration! But beware ! Performing cunnilingus is an art that requires some learning... 1/ Ask questions and listen to your partner Each woman has unique and different sexual desires. Ask them questions: More or less pressure? With or without fingers? And above all… listen! From his requests, of course, but also from his movements, the little signs that don't give away. When your partner says “keep going,” it doesn't mean to go faster or take other actions…but, rather, to just continue what exactly you're doing. 2/ Relax your partner Cunnilingus can be a source of stress for many women. (Am I shaved well enough? Does he like what he sees, what he does, what he smells? etc.) Make your partner understand that you like to eat her, that she is beautiful , that she can let herself go. Why not make little moans? In addition, the vibrations create a very pleasant sensation. 3/ Caress her, everywhere Don't just concentrate on this region... continue to caress her thighs, buttocks, breasts, grab her waist. Give her confidence, so that she feels good and lets herself go. 4/ Change position Be innovative and creative in order to find positions that are more comfortable for you, but especially for your partner. Ask him to come and sit on his knees above your face. In this way, she will also be able to control the practice. Have him lie on his back and drape his legs over your shoulders, while you kneel at the edge of the bed. In short, think outside the box… and under the covers! 5/ Find the right rhythm Don't stop at just one type of caress or lick. Press hard, then less hard, go back and forth up and down (thanks to the number 8!), sometimes fast, sometimes slow. You can also use your tongue for light penetration. Did you know ? Women have one side of the vulva more sensitive than the other… find it! 6/ Have an accessory as an ally or Use an accessory at the same time Whether it is an object of external (link) or internal (link) pleasure, agree to have an ally in your practice. More stimulation increases your partner's chances of having an orgasm. You succeeded ? Congratulations ! However, be aware that the clitoris becomes very sensitive and sometimes even a little painful after orgasm. On the contrary, it doesn't work? Ask him to masturbate and… take notes! Nothing better to learn more about your partner's sexual preferences. Good practice everyone!