Who says new year, inevitably says the word resolution. Lose weight, quit smoking, go to the gym, there are many of them and often expected, but not necessarily easy to maintain. This year, we invite you to resolve to do yourself good sexually, to dare to talk about sexuality, about what you like, as well as what you don't like. Here are the top 5 Sexxx Plus sexual resolutions for 2019!
1. Get to know yourself sexually
In order to have a fulfilling sex life, it is important to know yourself and what you like, as well as what you don't like. The sexual positions that thrill us and those that make us give up, our fantasies, those we dare to say and those we prefer to keep for our secret garden. Knowing who you are and taking responsibility for yourself, even under the covers, is essential. Knowing yourself, knowing your body, your desires and your needs is the key to building a vibrant, pleasant and tailor-made sexuality.
2. Talk about sex as a couple
Beyond the location and sexual position to adopt, it is important that you are able to tell your partner what makes you tick, as well as what you dislike. If communication is the basis of a happy couple, so is a happy couple in bed. Your partner cannot read your mind, you are the only person able to clearly express your tastes to him. This year, learn to overcome your embarrassment and make yourself heard!
3. Try a new sex toy
Do you already have one? It's time to try a new one. Have you never tried it yet? Fortunately, there is a first time for everything. There are a multitude of toys on the market, allowing you to stimulate different sexual organs and offer different pleasures. For the new year, dare to bring a little novelty into your bed by getting a brand new sex toy to use alone or as a couple. To know everything and find everything, visit our Objects of pleasure for her section: https://sexxxplus.com/fr/plus-pour-elle/objets-de-plaisir
and for him: https://sexxxplus.com/fr/plus-pour-lui/objets-de-plaisir
4. Take charge sexually
This year, we have to stop wondering if we are normal. Do we make love too much or not often enough in a week? Do we absolutely have to try sodomy? Should 3 have sex at least once? There are no right or wrong answers, but there is a very simple logic. We have to know how to put our energies in the right places, not to force ourselves or put pressure on ourselves. Forced sex will not be fully satisfying and unwanted sodomy may be painful and become a bad memory. Take responsibility for yourself, know what makes you feel good, and say it! Accept your body, it is beautiful, it is unique. Tell your partner where you like to be touched and what feels good and don't hesitate to tell him or her hot secrets that will excite him or her and stimulate the sexual desire he or she has for you.
5. Put sex on the schedule
Sometimes you have to be able to force destiny a little so that the things you expect happen. Between work, children and social life, there is your love life and your sex life. In 2019, take advantage of the occasions, treat yourself to a candlelit meal, send a few naughty sexts to your partner during the day, show off some new lingerie, try a new position or even get a massage from your better half. All means are good to put your sexuality at the center of your concerns!
Regardless of the resolution you choose, try to put your sexuality and your pleasure at the forefront in order to gain something positive from each of your sexual moments, alone or as a couple. And above all, don't be afraid of your choices and your desires. Remember that there is as much sexuality as there is human!
