Whenever a new year begins, the word “resolution” inevitably comes to mind. Losing weight, quitting smoking, going to the gym - there are many resolutions, and they are often sensible, but not necessarily easy to keep. This year, we suggest resolving to make yourself feel good sexually, to dare to talk about sexuality, about what you like as well as what you don’t like. Here are Sexxx Plus’s top 5 sexual resolutions for 2019!
1. Get to know yourself sexually
To have a fulfilling sex life, it is important to know yourself and understand what you like just as much as what you don’t like. The sexual positions that excite us and those that make us give up, our fantasies - the ones we dare to share and the ones we prefer to keep private. Knowing who you are and embracing yourself, even under the covers, is essential. Knowing yourself, your body, your desires, and your needs is the key to building a vibrant, enjoyable, tailor-made sex life.
2. Talk about sex as a couple
Beyond the place and the sexual position to try, it is important to be able to tell your partner what excites you as well as what you dislike. If communication is the foundation of a happy relationship, the same naturally applies to a happy sex life. Your partner cannot read your mind; you are the only person who can clearly express your preferences. This year, learn to overcome your shyness and make yourself heard!
3. Try a new sex toy
Already own one? Now is the time to try a new one. Never tried one before? Fortunately, there’s a first time for everything. There is a wide variety of toys on the market, designed to stimulate different sexual organs and provide different kinds of pleasure. For the new year, dare to bring a little novelty into your bedroom by getting yourself a brand-new sex toy to use solo or as a couple. To learn everything and find everything you need, visit our Pleasure Objects for Her section: https://sexxxplus.com/fr/plus-pour-elle/objets-de-plaisir
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4. Embrace yourself sexually
This year, we need to stop asking ourselves whether we are normal. Do we have sex too often or not often enough in a week? Do we absolutely have to try anal sex? Do we have to have a threesome at least once? There are no right or wrong answers, but there is one very simple principle. We need to know where to focus our energy, without forcing ourselves or putting pressure on ourselves. Forced sex will not be fully satisfying, and unwanted anal sex may be painful and become a bad memory. Embrace yourself, know what makes you feel good, and say so! Accept your body - it is beautiful and unique. Tell your partner where you like to be touched and what feels good, and don’t hesitate to share steamy confidences that will turn them on and stimulate their sexual desire for you.
5. Schedule sex
Sometimes, you have to take a little initiative to make the things you hope for happen. Between work, the children, and your social life, there are also your love life and your sex life. In 2019, create opportunities: treat yourselves to a candlelit meal, send your partner a few naughty sexts during the day, show off some new lingerie, try a new position, or have your better half give you a massage. Any approach is good for putting your sex life back at the center of your priorities!
No matter which resolution you choose, try to put your sexuality and pleasure first so that you can get something positive out of every sexual moment, alone or as a couple. And above all, don’t be afraid of your choices and desires. Remember that there are as many forms of sexuality as there are people!
