At SexxxPlus, we help you choose your anal toy - plug, anal beads, or prostate stimulator. Three accessories, three experiences. The right choice depends on your level of experience, the sensation you’re looking for, and the material that suits you. This guide gives you all the information you need to decide.
What exactly is an anal plug, and what is it used for?
An anal plug is recognizable by its conical shape: wide in the center, tapered at the top, with a flared base at the end. This base is essential for safe use. The plug’s main function is static wear: a continuous feeling of fullness, without movement. It comes in medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass, and is suitable for all anatomies. It’s the best starting point for gentle first-time anal exploration.
Anal beads: how they differ from a plug
Anal beads differ from a plug through their spherical shape and the precise moment when they produce sensations. Whereas a plug works by staying in place, anal beads actively stimulate during insertion and withdrawal. Each sphere activates the sphincter muscles as it passes through. Models with multiple progressively sized spheres allow for a gentle introduction. Compatible with all anatomies, anal beads require no prior knowledge of the prostate.
The prostate stimulator: who it’s for and why it’s different
A prostate stimulator is designed to reach a specific anatomical point. The prostate is located on the anterior wall of the rectum, approximately five to seven centimeters from the entrance. The stimulator’s curved shape isn’t aesthetic: it’s functional. This type of toy is longer than a standard plug and requires greater muscle relaxation. It’s available in a non-vibrating version or a vibrating version with an integrated motor. It isn’t a first-time accessory.
What level of experience is right for each anal toy?
Experience level is the first criterion to consider. For beginners, a silicone plug with a diameter under 3 cm is suitable for untrained muscles. At an intermediate level, anal beads with one or two spheres are a great choice. The prostate stimulator is intended for those who already have an established anal practice. Whatever your stage, the rule remains the same: use plenty of lubricant and never force anything.
Materials: silicone, steel, or glass - which should you choose?
The material affects the sensations and the compatible lubricant. Medical-grade silicone is flexible, warm to the touch, and ideal for beginners. With a silicone toy, water-based lubricant is mandatory: silicone lubricant damages the toy’s surface. Stainless steel is smooth, easy to sterilize, and suitable for temperature play. Borosilicate glass offers complete firmness and is compatible with all lubricants. Avoid completely: porous plastic, PVC, and uncertified latex.
Size and diameter: the criterion everyone underestimates
The diameter at the widest point is the criterion that really matters, much more than the total length. In S size, between 2 and 3 cm, the toy is suitable for beginners. In M size, between 3 and 4 cm, prior experience is recommended. L size, starting at 4 cm, is intended for advanced users and requires thorough warm-up. Never skip a size: gradual progression protects comfort and prevents discomfort.
Still hesitating? Here’s how SexxxPlus can help you choose
At SexxxPlus, you’ll find all three types of anal accessories in physical stores and online, with a selection organized by experience level, material, and use. The teams at the 13 stores in Quebec answer your questions without judgment or pressure. The selection is curated to combine accessibility and quality. Explore the complete collection of anal toys at sexxxplus.com or visit the store closest to you for help with your choice.
Vibrating or non-vibrating anal toy: what’s the practical difference?
A motorless anal toy offers pure mechanical sensations, ideal for first-time exploration or discreet wear throughout the day. The vibrating version adds active stimulation with variable intensity levels. Connected models allow remote control through a mobile app, which is convenient for two-person play. Before buying a vibrating model, check the battery life, noise level, and waterproof certification indicated by the manufacturer.
Anal lubricant: just as important as the toy itself
The anus produces no natural lubrication. Lubricant isn’t optional: it’s essential every time. With a medical-grade silicone toy, use only water-based lubricant. Silicone lubricant damages the toy’s surface over time. With a steel or glass toy, both formulas are compatible. Choose a high-viscosity lubricant formulated for anal use: it lasts longer. Reapply if the glide decreases.
Cleaning and care: basic rules for safe use
Clean your anal toy immediately after each use with lukewarm water and mild, fragrance-free soap. Non-motorized metal or glass toys can be boiled for complete sterilization. For vibrating toys, do not fully submerge them unless an IPX7 or IPX8 certification is confirmed by the manufacturer. Rinse thoroughly to remove all soap residue. Dry completely before storing each one in a clean fabric pouch, separate from other accessories.
Anal safety: what to know before you begin
Every anal safety rule is based on one fundamental principle: any object inserted must have a base whose diameter is wider than the anal opening. Without this safety base, the object may be pulled inside. Stop immediately if you feel pain: it’s a clear signal, not discomfort to ignore. Never move an anal toy into vaginal contact without thoroughly cleaning it. Start with external massage, progress slowly, and never skip a step.
Which anal toy is really right for you?
Choosing your anal toy means answering three simple questions: what’s your level of experience, what sensation are you looking for, and which material suits you best? The anal plug is suitable for beginners and passive wear. Anal beads are ideal for sensations created through movement. The prostate stimulator is intended for advanced, targeted use. Explore the complete selection of anal toys at sexxxplus.com or at one of the 13 SexxxPlus stores in Quebec.
Frequently asked questions about anal toys
How do you use an anal plug for the first time?
Start with an external massage of the anal area to relax the sphincter muscles before any insertion. Apply plenty of water-based lubricant to the toy and the opening. Insert slowly, with a slight rotation, without forcing. Discomfort is a signal to pause; pain is an immediate stop signal. For first-time use, do not continue beyond 15 to 20 minutes. The goal is to recognize your sensations and move forward at your own pace.
What is the difference between anal beads and an anal plug?
The plug is conical and designed to stay in place: it provides a passive, continuous feeling of fullness. Anal beads are spherical, and their sensations mainly come from insertion and withdrawal. The plug stays in place on its own thanks to its flared base. Anal beads are connected by a cord or stem. Both are available in multiple sizes and materials. The choice depends on the desired sensation: passive for the plug, active movement for the beads.
Can a prostate stimulator be used by everyone?
The prostate stimulator targets the prostate, which is present only in male anatomy. People without a prostate can absolutely use the same toys for general anal stimulation, but without experiencing P-spot stimulation. This type of accessory isn’t recommended as a first anal toy: intermediate experience is advised before incorporating it. It’s available in vibrating or non-vibrating versions depending on preference. Always progress from a smaller plug before moving on to it.
Which lubricant should you use with a silicone anal plug?
With a medical-grade silicone toy, water-based lubricant is the only compatible choice. Silicone lubricant damages the toy’s surface and makes it porous over time. With a stainless steel or borosilicate glass toy, both formulas are compatible without risk. For anal use, choose a high-viscosity lubricant specifically formulated for this area: it lasts longer. Reapply if the glide decreases during use.
What size anal plug should you start with as a beginner?
For beginners, a diameter between 2 and 3 cm, S size, is suitable for untrained muscles. The diameter at the widest point is the priority criterion, much more than the toy’s total length. In terms of material, soft medical-grade silicone is recommended for beginners: it’s gentler during insertion. Move to M size only after several comfortable uses of S size. Gradual progression is the key to enjoyable anal exploration.
How do you clean and care for an anal toy after use?
Clean your anal toy immediately after use with lukewarm water and mild, fragrance-free soap. Non-motorized metal or glass toys can be boiled for complete, safe sterilization. For vibrating toys, do not fully submerge them unless IPX7 or IPX8 certification is confirmed by the manufacturer. Rinse thoroughly to remove all soap residue. Dry completely before storing each one in a clean, separate fabric pouch.
