At SexxxPlus, we help you choose your anal toy—plug, anal beads, or prostate stimulator. Three accessories, three experiences. The right choice depends on your experience level, the sensation you're looking for, and the material that suits you. This guide provides all the information you need to decide.

What exactly is an anal plug and what is it for?

The anal plug is recognizable by its conical shape: wide in the middle, tapered at the top, with a flared base at the end. This base is essential for safe use. The main function of the plug is static wear: a continuous feeling of fullness, without movement. It comes in medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass, and is suitable for all anatomies. It's the best starting point for a gentle first anal exploration.

Anal beads: how they differ from a plug

Anal beads differ from a plug by their spherical shape and the precise moment they provide sensations. While the plug works by staying in place, anal beads actively stimulate during insertion and withdrawal. Each sphere activates the sphincter muscles as it passes. Models with several progressively sized spheres allow for a gentle initiation. Compatible with all anatomies, anal beads require no prior knowledge of the prostate.

The prostate stimulator: who it's for and why it's different

The prostate stimulator is designed to reach a precise anatomical point. The prostate is located on the anterior wall of the rectum, about five to seven centimeters from the entrance. The curved shape of the stimulator is not aesthetic: it is functional. This type of toy is longer than a standard plug and requires greater muscle relaxation. It comes in non-vibrating or vibrating versions with an integrated motor. It is not an accessory for first-time users.

What experience level for which anal toy?

Experience level is the first criterion to consider. For initiation, a silicone plug with a diameter of less than 3 cm is suitable for untrained muscles. At an intermediate level, anal beads with one or two spheres are very suitable. The prostate stimulator is for those who already have established anal practice. Whatever the stage, the rule remains the same: lubricate generously and never force it.

Materials: silicone, steel, or glass, which to choose?

The material determines the sensations and compatible lubricant. Medical-grade silicone is soft, warm to the touch, and ideal for beginners. With a silicone toy, water-based lubricant is mandatory: a silicone lubricant degrades the toy's surface. Stainless steel is smooth, easy to sterilize, and suitable for temperature play. Borosilicate glass offers complete firmness and accepts all lubricants. Absolutely avoid: porous plastic, PVC, and uncertified latex.

Size and diameter: the criterion everyone underestimates

The diameter at the widest point is the criterion that really matters, much more than the total length. In size S, between 2 and 3 cm, the toy is suitable for beginner practice. In size M, between 3 and 4 cm, prior experience is recommended. Size L, starting from 4 cm, is for advanced practice and requires serious warm-up. Never skip sizes: gradual progression protects comfort and prevents discomfort.

Still unsure? Here's how SexxxPlus can help you choose

At SexxxPlus, you'll find all three types of anal accessories in physical stores and online, with a selection organized by experience level, material, and use. The teams at the 13 stores in Quebec will answer your questions without judgment or pressure. The selection is curated to combine accessibility and quality. Explore the complete collection of anal toys on sexxxplus.com or visit your nearest store for personalized assistance.

Vibrating or non-vibrating anal toy: what's the concrete difference?

A non-motorized anal toy offers pure mechanical sensations, ideal for a first exploration or discreet wear throughout the day. The vibrating version adds active stimulation with variable intensity levels. Connected models allow remote control via a mobile app, convenient for partnered play. Before purchasing a vibrating model, check battery life, noise level, and the waterproof certification indicated by the manufacturer.

Anal lubricant: as important as the toy itself

The anus produces no natural lubrication. Lubricant is not an option: it is essential for every use. With a medical-grade silicone toy, use only water-based lubricant. A silicone lubricant degrades the toy's surface over time. With a steel or glass toy, both formulas are compatible without risk. Opt for a high-viscosity lubricant formulated for anal use: it lasts longer. Reapply if glide decreases.

Cleaning and maintenance: basic rules for safe use

Clean your anal toy immediately after each use with warm water and mild, unscented soap. Non-motorized metal or glass toys can be boiled for complete sterilization. For vibrating toys, do not fully submerge them unless IPX7 or IPX8 certification is confirmed by the manufacturer. Rinse thoroughly to remove all soap residue. Dry completely before storing each in a clean textile pouch, separate from other accessories.

Anal safety: what you need to know before starting

All anal safety rules are based on one fundamental principle: any inserted object must have a base whose diameter exceeds the anal opening. Without this safety base, the object can be sucked inward. Stop immediately if you feel pain: it is a clear signal, not discomfort to ignore. Never pass an anal toy to vaginal contact without thorough cleaning. Start with external massage, progress slowly, and never skip steps.

Which anal toy is truly right for you?

Choosing your anal toy means answering three simple questions: what is your experience level, what sensation are you looking for, and what material suits you best. The anal plug is suitable for initiation and passive wear. Anal beads are ideal for sensations during movement. The prostate stimulator is for advanced and targeted practice. Explore the complete selection of anal toys on sexxxplus.com or in one of the 13 SexxxPlus stores in Quebec.

Frequently asked questions about anal toys

How to use an anal plug for the first time?

Start with an external massage of the anal area to relax the sphincter muscles before any insertion. Generously apply water-based lubricant to the toy and the entrance. Insert slowly, with a slight rotation, without forcing. Discomfort is a signal to pause; pain is a signal to stop immediately. For first-time use, do not extend beyond 15 to 20 minutes. The goal is to recognize your sensations and progress at your own pace.

What is the difference between anal beads and an anal plug?

The plug is conical and designed to stay in place: it provides a passive and continuous feeling of fullness. Anal beads are spherical, and their sensations mainly come from insertion and withdrawal. The plug stays in place on its own thanks to its flared base. Anal beads are connected by a cord or stem. Both come in various sizes and materials. The choice depends on the desired sensation: passive for the plug, active in motion for the beads.

Can a prostate stimulator be used by everyone?

The prostate stimulator targets the prostate, which is only present in male anatomy. People without a prostate can certainly use the same toys for general anal stimulation, but without benefiting from P-spot stimulation. This type of accessory is not recommended as a first anal toy: intermediate practice is advised before incorporating it. It comes in vibrating or non-vibrating versions depending on preferences. Always progress from a smaller plug before moving on to it.

What lubricant to use with a silicone anal plug?

With a medical-grade silicone toy, water-based lubricant is the only compatible choice. A silicone lubricant degrades the toy's surface and makes it porous over time. With a stainless steel or borosilicate glass toy, both formulas are compatible without risk. For anal use, opt for a high-viscosity lubricant specifically formulated for this area: it lasts longer. Reapply if glide decreases during use.

What size anal plug should you start with when beginning?

For initiation, a diameter between 2 and 3 cm, size S, is suitable for untrained muscles. The diameter at the widest point is the priority criterion, much more than the total length of the toy. In terms of material, soft medical-grade silicone is recommended to start: it is gentler upon insertion. Only move to size M after several comfortable uses of size S. Gradual progression is the key to an enjoyable anal exploration.

How to clean and maintain an anal toy after use?

Clean your anal toy immediately after use with warm water and mild, unscented soap. Non-motorized metal or glass toys can be boiled for complete and safe sterilization. For vibrating toys, do not fully submerge them unless IPX7 or IPX8 certification is confirmed by the manufacturer. Rinse thoroughly to remove all soap residue. Dry completely before storing each in a clean, separate textile pouch.