Although it is not obligatory, foreplay allows us to properly prepare our body to surrender and have sex. And even if popular belief is that men don't like to do it and that it's "a girl's thing", you will be surprised to learn that the gentleman also likes to give and receive caresses under the duvet.
How about we go back to basics. What is foreplay for? They are used to bring sexual excitement to both partners, without however reaching orgasm...because the word says it...it is a preparation!
And what are we preparing? We prepare the body to have sex. To be relaxed, excited, confident with others. For women, foreplay will also provide good lubrication of the vagina to facilitate penetration. In men, the initial caresses will facilitate the erection.
Each gender has its own preferences when it comes to foreplay. For men, fellatio tops the list. The various caresses on the frenulum of the penis, on the lower back and kisses on the neck come not far behind,
For women, cunnilingus remains the most popular. This practice allows for good lubrication, even more supported by the partner's saliva. Caresses on the clitoris or breasts also increase desire.
Foreplay doesn't stop with caresses and languorous kisses. The words, the glances exchanged and the light and interested attitude also allow a rise in excitement among the two lovers.
Do you want to go out of the ordinary and surprise your darling during the next foreplay? Here are some original ideas to put into practice.
The blindfold: Blindfold your partner and give them a moment they will remember for a long time. By not being able to see, the sense of touch is accentuated and the stimulations intensified. Run over his body with your hands, your tongue or an object like a feather to make him quiver with pleasure.
Role playing: Putting yourself in the shoes of a sexy nurse or a school teacher is always exciting, especially when the costumes, although light, lend themselves to it. Putting yourself in the shoes of our erotically tinged character will definitely increase the excitement.
Sexting: Who says foreplay has to start in the bedroom? Exchanging a few naughty texts during the day will set the stage for a nice return home in perspective.
The aperitif: Having a drink or two with your darling allows you to relax and unwind. Once the stress of the day has been put aside, use the ice in your glass to travel over your partner's body. All his senses will be awakened...and it will be the start of a beautiful evening!
No matter how you choose to experience foreplay, know that the important thing is that this practice allows both partners to relax, build excitement and sexual desire, and prepare the body for sexual intercourse. . From this moment on, let yourself go and take full advantage of this moment which will make you experience a multitude of thrills.
