Although they aren’t mandatory, foreplay allows us to properly prepare our bodies to let go and have sex. And even though popular belief holds that men don’t like taking part in it and that it’s “a girl thing,” you may be surprised to learn that men also enjoy giving and receiving caresses under the covers.

Let’s get back to basics. What is foreplay for? It brings both partners to a state of sexual arousal without reaching orgasm... because the word says it all… it’s preparation!

And what are we preparing for? We’re preparing the body to have sex: to be relaxed, aroused, and comfortable with the other person. For women, foreplay also allows for good vaginal lubrication to facilitate penetration. For men, the initial caresses help facilitate an erection.

Each sex has its preferences when it comes to foreplay. For men, oral sex comes first on the list. Various caresses on the frenulum of the penis, the lower back, and kisses on the neck come not far behind.

For women, cunnilingus remains the most popular. This practice allows for good lubrication, further enhanced by the partner’s saliva. Caresses on the clitoris or breasts also increase desire.

Foreplay doesn’t stop at caresses and passionate kisses. Words, exchanged glances, and a lighthearted, interested attitude also allow arousal to build between the two lovers.

Want to break out of the ordinary and surprise your sweetheart during your next session of foreplay? Here are a few original ideas to try.

The blindfold: Blindfold your partner and give them an experience they’ll remember for a long time. Since they can’t see, their sense of touch becomes heightened and the stimulation intensified. Explore their body with your hands, your tongue, or an object such as a feather to make them shiver with pleasure.
Role-playing: Pretending to be a sexy nurse or a schoolteacher is always exciting, especially when the costumes, although revealing, help set the mood. Taking on an erotic character is sure to increase arousal.

Sexting: Who said foreplay had to start in the bedroom? Exchange a few naughty texts during the day to set the stage for an enjoyable homecoming.

Drinks: Having 1 or 2 drinks with your sweetheart helps you relax and unwind. Once the day’s stress is behind you, use the ice in your glass to run over your partner’s body. All their senses will be awakened… and it will be the beginning of a wonderful evening!

No matter how you choose to experience foreplay, remember that the important thing is for it to help both partners relax, build arousal and sexual desire, and prepare the body for sex. From that moment on, let yourself go and fully enjoy this experience, which will bring you a multitude of intense sensations.