Who said you have to touch each other to experience pleasure? Although the image we usually have of sex involves exciting caresses, passionate kisses, and the inevitable penetration, it can happen that both partners are able to make love without touching each other. Here’s a closer look at this intriguing tantric practice.
Getting turned on from a distance is far from impossible
The art of making love without touching each other dates back several hundred years and is derived from tantra, which aims to weave sexuality and mindfulness together. You become completely focused and receptive to the arousal you are experiencing, and this arousal increases your libido. In reality, it is a fantasy that our society tends to view more as a sexual game. Simply being forbidden to touch each other can create frustration, which paradoxically increases sexual desire.
Have you ever tried engaging in foreplay without touching your partner? The next time you have sex, challenge yourselves to start without touching each other. The power of words alone can be incredibly powerful and arousing. Whispering tender and thrilling words in your partner’s ear can sometimes be enough to heighten pleasure. And since human beings are rather voyeuristic by nature, simply seeing your partner experience sexual pleasure can be enough to give you pleasure as well.
Making love without penetration
Obviously, certain alternatives can be considered when making love without touching each other. Sometimes, it is enough for the 2 partners’ genitals not to come into contact and for there to be no penetration for the sexual encounter to be considered “without touching.” Exploring your partner’s erogenous zones with your fingers, tongue, or even your sex organs can be a very interesting way to heighten pleasure. However, be sure to limit yourselves so that your sexual organs cannot come into contact. To discover the main erogenous zones, see our article on the subject: https://sexxxplus.com/fr/les-zones-du-plaisir.
Take turns massaging each other, adding a few sensual caresses along the way, but be sure to stop everything if you feel that orgasm is about to happen, then switch roles. A wonderful way to prolong pleasure, again and again!
Preventing yourselves from touching each other
Obviously, several variations associated with non-contact sex exist, and all it takes is a little imagination to try them. Take care to tie your partner to the bedposts, preventing them from reaching you. An immense playground will then open up to you. You can give them exciting caresses and passionate kisses that will heighten their libido, while they will not be able to control what is happening. As your partner is forced to let themselves be enveloped and guided by your actions, use your tongue to explore their entire body. Stop at the most erogenous areas, but be careful not to linger there too long… you have to stretch out the pleasure a little! To increase the arousal another notch, blindfold your partner and remain silent. Only your partner’s breathless breathing should be perceptible in the room. From that moment on, you are the only person who knows what is coming; feel free to use certain accessories to spice up the moment.
Will you be able to resist?
