Having sex underwater is certainly on many people’s list of fantasies. Water is without a doubt one of the ideal settings for a little summer sexual activity. And although summer is drawing to a close and giving way to autumn, which is gradually settling in, there are certainly more places to have sex underwater than we might think. So, shall we take the plunge?
Water everywhere
When we think about having sex in water, the first places that usually come to mind are the bath and the shower. Admittedly, they’re easy to access and right in our own homes, but other places can be added to the list of aquatic pleasures. Just think of a swimming pool, a spa, a stream, a river, a lake, the sea, and even the rain! Sometimes all it takes is a little imagination, and discretion, to find the ideal spot. And when sunset, cocktails, and warmth are part of the picture, all the elements are in place to take the plunge and heighten the pleasure.
Precautions to take
Although water may seem harmless at first glance, you still need to be careful when you want to have sex in a body of water. Indeed, all bodies of water contain bacteria. And although our skin can normally tolerate them without harm, the same is not true of the intimate areas.
Women are more likely to experience the adverse effects of aquatic sex. During penetration, the penis carries water into the vagina. Some bacteria contained in the water can disrupt the vaginal flora and cause urinary tract infections, yeast infections, or irritation in the intimate areas. In addition, because saltwater and chlorinated water quickly dry out the mucous membranes, the vagina’s natural lubrication is affected, making penetration more difficult and irritating.
A tip for you ladies: Rinse your genitals thoroughly once you’re out of the water and wash them with a pH-neutral soap. This will remove as many bacteria as possible.
A few tips for an exciting swim
If you use a condom during sex, make sure to put it on and take it off outside the pool. This will ensure that it is properly in place and stays on throughout penetration. Be careful: condoms are more likely to tear or split when used underwater. Better safe than sorry!
To counter vaginal dryness and make back-and-forth movement easier, use a waterproof, silicone-based lubricant.
There are a few sexual positions to consider when having sex underwater. In a pool or in the sea, favor vertical, face-to-face positions. Curious onlookers won’t notice a thing, and you’ll be more stable, allowing you to let go more easily. In a more confined space such as a spa, opt instead for a horizontal position in which one partner is on top of the other. For example, having the woman sit on top of the man can ensure a mutually pleasurable experience.
The suction effect, myth or reality?
Although rare, the suction effect is very real. It is therefore possible for the 2 partners to find themselves “stuck” together, with penetration seeming impossible to undo. This phenomenon, which generally has no serious consequences, occurs when the 2 partners are not sufficiently submerged and too much air enters the vagina along with the water. If you find yourself in this unfortunate situation, there is absolutely no need to panic. Simply insert a finger into the vagina to cancel out the suction effect. In the vast majority of cases, everything will end well.
So, make sure to follow these few tips during your next sexual encounter underwater and, above all, be careful not to get caught. With that, enjoy your swim!