Often at the top of men's list of fantasies, the famous threesome, involving two girls and a guy, is not unanimous among couples.

That being said, it is more and more common in today's sexuality. It's an experience that can seem very tempting and can be very exciting... However, you need to make sure that your couple is ready, in order to avoid any discomfort that could prove disastrous, or even fatal, for your relationship.

The first question to ask yourself is: why?

Why does your couple want to do this experiment?

If it is for:

• add spice to your sex life
• live new experiences together
• the simple pleasure of the thing

We say yes!

However, it is essential that the couple first discuss it in order to know each other's expectations and limits. Make sure your partner is ready to take action, that it doesn't remain a fantasy for him/her. Because for some people, fantasies are even more exciting than reality, than taking action!

“Do we have anyone in mind that we would like to do it with? »
“In what context do we want to carry out the experiment? »

Your responses and motivations must be compatible with those of your partner.

Communication, curiosity, openness, trust (in yourself and in your partner), adaptation, respect. These are qualities that are more than essential to the success of your experience.

On the other hand, if it is for:

• please your boyfriend
• try to save your failing relationship

We strongly suggest not!

You must ensure that your couple has a fulfilled sexuality and exemplary communication at the base, before making the experiment. The famous three-way trip involves its share of risk. First, that of being disappointed by the experience. Second, that the “guest” is/becomes your partner’s favorite, even more so if your relationship is not solid.

Sharing is not for everyone! For people who tend to be jealous, worried and who lack self-confidence, it should be avoided. Some people feel so many negative emotions during the act that they are unable to move past it afterwards. They keep a bitter taste from this experience and lose confidence in their partner. For those who are worried, you might as well try the threesome once you are single or as a “guest”.

Despite all the precautions to be taken, the ideal situation for this experience remains spontaneity and letting go. You cannot predict your emotions and reactions during the relationship. Stay attentive to your limits, those of your partner and also those of the third person. He/she is also a human being, even if he/she is (perhaps) completely unknown to you. Don't ignore their feelings and preferences.

Obviously there is no need to advise you to protect yourself in order to avoid the transmission of STIs and/or an unwanted pregnancy.

Have you tried it and everything went well? So much the better !
It's up to you if you want there to be a sequel...