How to choose a vibrator: 5 essential criteria
Once you’ve identified the type of stimulation you’re looking for, here are the five criteria to consider before buying. These are the elements that SexxxPlus advisors systematically discuss in-store, and which most online guides don't explore enough.
The material—silicone, plastic, or other?
Material is the primary safety criterion. The only recommended materials for prolonged intimate contact are medical-grade silicone and ABS plastic.
Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, making it easy to clean and free from bacterial accumulation risks. It has a soft, warm texture to the touch. A crucial detail never to forget: silicone is incompatible with silicone-based lubricants, which gradually degrade its surface. With a silicone toy, always use a water-based lubricant.
ABS plastic, being more rigid, transmits vibrations more directly and intensely. It is also non-porous and very easy to maintain. Absolutely avoid jelly or PVC-type materials, which are porous and often contain chemicals, potentially causing irritation and not cleaning effectively.
The power source—battery-operated or rechargeable?
Rechargeable vibrators via USB cable are now the standard in the mid-range and high-end categories. They are generally more powerful than battery-operated models, quieter, and much more economical in the long run.
Battery-operated vibrators remain practical for travel or as an affordable entry-level option. Their performance varies depending on the type of batteries used and their charge level. For an optimal and lasting experience, rechargeable is the best investment.
In terms of battery life, expect between 1 and 3 hours of continuous use depending on the model. High-end models often boast superior battery life and fast charging times.
Intensity and vibration modes—how many do you really need?
A toy with 20 vibration modes is not necessarily better than one with 5. What matters is the quality and progression of the settings. A powerful motor with well-distributed intensity levels is better than a model that jumps from minimum to maximum without gradation.
If you're a beginner, always start at the lowest intensity and explore at your own pace. For rabbit vibrators with dual motors, the notable advantage is the ability to independently adjust internal and clitoral intensity, depending on what you feel at any given moment.
Water resistance—waterproof or splash-resistant?
A vibrator's water resistance level determines whether you can use it in the shower or bath. The IPX rating is the standard reference.
An IPX7-rated vibrator is submersible up to 30 minutes in one meter of water: perfectly suited for aquatic use. An IPX4-rated model is splash-resistant but should not be immersed in water. Always check the rating on the product sheet before taking your toy into the shower.
Bonus note: total water resistance also simplifies cleaning, as you can rinse the toy directly under water without risk to the mechanics.
Noise level—play without being heard
This is the least frequently mentioned criterion in buying guides, yet it's often one of the most decisive in the Quebec context: cohabitation, family life, thin-walled apartments.
Modern vibrators equipped with brushless motors are significantly quieter than older standard motor models. The noise level also varies depending on the material, motor power, and contact surface with the body.
If noise is a significant concern for you, don't hesitate to ask our SexxxPlus in-store teams for advice: depending on the models, it's possible to hear the toy operate before purchasing it.
Which vibrator to choose based on your experience?
The major flaw of most comparative guides is that they never personalize their recommendations. Even after reading ten articles, you still don't know which one suits your specific situation. Here are three concrete profiles to help you overcome this blockage.
For a first time—gentle, discreet, hassle-free
If you've never used a sex toy, or very little, the best choice is a compact, rechargeable silicone clitoral vibrator. A small bullet or suction model, with 5 to 10 vibration modes, is more than enough to explore without being overwhelmed by options.
For budget, expect between $30 and $80 for reliable material quality and a decent motor. Avoid models under $20: the material quality is often questionable, and the lifespan very limited.
Our in-store advisors can guide you to the right model without any judgment. That's exactly what we're here for.
To explore further—a more complete second toy
Do you already know your preferences and want to go further? The rabbit vibrator or G-spot vibrator are natural next steps. These toys offer more complex sensations, with multiple motors or targeted internal stimulation.
Dual-motor models allow you to customize each setting independently, according to your desires at any given moment. The learning curve is a bit longer than with a clitoral vibrator, but the experience is well worth it.
Suggested budget: between $70 and $150 for a mid-range to high-end quality model that will last several years with proper care.
For couple use—toys that please two
Couples' vibrators, vibrating rings, or app-controlled toys easily integrate into a relationship, whether for foreplay or during intercourse. They bring a dimension of complicity and novelty that re-energizes intimate life for two.
For long-distance couples, remote control apps open up a whole new dimension of shared intimacy, regardless of physical distance. It's a concrete way to maintain connection and desire despite separation.
Budget: between $50 and $200 depending on the level of functionality. The range is wide, and our teams can help you find the right balance between budget and experience.
Lubricant and maintenance—steps everyone ignores
Using a vibrator without appropriate lubricant or regular maintenance risks damaging both your toy and your intimate health. These are steps that competing guides barely mention, but which make all the difference in your experience.
Which lubricant to use with your vibrator?
Water-based lubricant is the universal standard: compatible with all materials (silicone, ABS, glass, metal) and with all condoms. It is the recommended default choice for any intimate toy, without exception.
Silicone-based lubricant is slicker and lasts longer, but it is absolutely incompatible with silicone toys. It degrades the material's surface over time, creating microfissures conducive to bacteria. Reserve it only for ABS plastic, glass, or metal toys.
Oil-based lubricant should be avoided with latex condoms, with most toys, and is not recommended for regular vaginal use. When in doubt, always choose water-based lubricant.
Check out our selection of lubricants to find the product compatible with your toy.
How to clean and store your vibrator?
Cleaning should be done before and after each use with a specialized adult toy cleaner or a mild, unscented soap. Rinse with lukewarm water (respecting your model's water resistance level), then dry completely before storing.
For storage, avoid leaving your vibrator directly in contact with other silicone toys in a drawer: some materials can react with prolonged contact. An undyed cotton pouch or the original box is the ideal solution. Proper storage extends your toy's lifespan and prevents contamination.
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Discover our selection of vibrators at SexxxPlus
You now have all the keys to make an informed choice. At SexxxPlus, all our vibrators are available in-store and online, with personalized and non-judgmental advice.
Our 13 stores across Quebec (Montreal, Quebec City, South Shore, and more) welcome you so you can ask your questions in person and see the products up close. Prefer to order from home? We deliver discreetly throughout Quebec, in neutral packaging with no indication of the contents.